Monday, September 3, 2012

San Diego Wedding

Somedays I feel I have a million things to say and then of course, never find the time to write.  And then days like today where I want to write and the kids by some miracle are leaving me alone and I have nothing to say.

But I guess I have pictures to post...


















We were in California for a little while and that was awesome.  Cassie and Dallin got married, now they are living in our basement.  So far, it is just really nice to have people in the basement I feel comfortable with.  The basement is much cleaner than the upstairs.  :)  But California was great, we got to stay with Abby (my long lost practically sister) and her husband, Kevin, Abby's mom (who is like another mom to me), Susan, and Abby's kids: Ally and Josh (he is called Josh 1, my Josh is Josh 2).  It was so nice to see them, it did my heart good.  And to make the best of it, Cassie picked Kenni and Chris to be the wedding photographers (that is why all those pics are so great).  It was the first time I'd seen Kenni since she left here last May.  I have never been happier to see anyone that wasn't Tyson.  Sisters really shouldn't be apart.  I'm SO glad Carmel lives here.

So I hope it okay I am posting these pictures.  They really are so amazing.  I just wish I could have a lot longer to hang out with all these great people we spent time with, but it was nice to be back in our own house...just long enough to repack for the lakehouse, but I will have to download and post those pics later.  So hooray Cassie and Dallin and congrats on your marriage and new life together!!  We love you guys!

Tuesday, August 7, 2012

Boys-Video Style

My Not-so-little Boys

 MATTHEW

    Our little Matthew boy is almost 11 months old.  He has a personality, that is for sure.  Someone described him the other day as "a smile waiting to happen."  That is him for sure.  He has a heart melting smile, with two big dimples and his deep blue sparkly eyes.  Not to mention the cute little dimple chin he has too.  His hair is fluffy and Tyson keeps telling me we need to cut it, but I don't know how to go about it.  Josh and Caleb were both bald for at least the first year of their life.  I wouldn't have the slightest idea of how to keep Matthew still, and I'm afraid I would ruin the fluff.  So if the smile, fluffy hair, and chubby appendages don't get you to smile, for sure his floppy ears will.  Seriously, this kid is cute.  But, I guess I am pretty biased. 
    He loves to run after his brothers and he crawls about 1/3 of the time, walks/runs the rest of the time.  He refuses to eat baby food and has for some time now.  He will only eat what his brothers are eating.  He is cutting 4-6 teeth (I can't quite tell) right now, which means his cranky personality is a little (okay, a lot) more evident than usual.  And he is stubborn.  He screams and squawks when he wants something.  SO ANNOYING.  We are really working to break him of that.  And when he is mad, woah, he is mad.  It is just so crazy that a person so little can have so many opinions and so much defined character at so young.  It doesn't help that I have gotten lazier now that I am more exhausted chasing after all three of these kids, so pretty much, Matthew gives me a run for my money.  Tyson has to pick up my slack all the time.  And Matthew really listens to his daddy, for which we are all (including everyone at church that gets sick of his loud noises) appreciate.  I just LOVE this little guy!



 JOSHUA

    My Josh Dude is getting so big (5 years old in November).  He is my big helper, my bud, the tattle tell (including on me, Tyson knows way more secrets about me than he used to, like how much sugar I eat, hehe), the big brother.  He is a little bossy, especially with Caleb.  Sometimes that is a little frustrating, but Josh also has a lot of pressure on him to take care of his siblings, so it makes sense.  He has started washing his own dishes, which I am pretty sure I appreciate.  :)  There are so many chores that he wants to help with, like cleaning the bathrooms, vacuuming, helping Daddy cut down the big tree, mowing the lawn, etc.  We came to a deal about when he can start mowing the lawn.  I was wearing a normal t-shirt and Josh asked how tall he would be when he could mow the lawn and so I told him when the top of his head reaches where the bottom of my sleeve hits on my arm (I hope that makes sense), he can start mowing the lawn.  So he reminds me all the time.  He also talks about "the other two babies."  He will say, "we are all here except for the other two babies."  Apparently, we have two more babies in heaven.  They are both girls, but not twins (thankfully).  So, we will see if he is right.
   We have been doing a lot of reading lately with Josh.  He LOVES books (and puzzles and board games).  He has been learning how to read and is doing really well.  Today he read "This is a cat.  The cat can run.  Mud is on the cat."  Never in my life did I think reading three sentences would be so cool.  He is a snuggle kid and loves to have his back scratched or massaged.  He tells me often how pretty I am and how much he loves me and Daddy.  I really like this age.  He is so honest, but still thinks I am pretty perfect.  I know that illusion won't last forever, but I really love it now.  I really am lucky to have such a great, sweet kid.



 CALEB

   Our sweet Caleb boy will be 3 in October.  So weird.  He was so little and underweight for so long, that I guess I didn't think he would ever grow.  He is finally getting taller and I catch myself looking twice at him because it seems like he looks older every time I see him.  He used to be so easy going, and I'm sure he still is, but he has opinions now which is weird.  He wants to eat only certain foods and wear certain clothes.  He hates being unclothed in any way, so potty training has been a serious struggle.  Like he seriously sits there bawling and screaming for hours if I change his diaper and don't put his pants back on.  Kind of funny.  But I am glad he has opinions, it makes life more interesting and it is cute to see what he cares about.
  One thing he cares a lot about are his brothers.  He tells Josh and Matthew all the time that they are his best friends.  It is so sweet.  He hugs poor Matthew non-stop and tries to carry him and feed him and all kinds of really loving things that drive me crazy.  :)  He speaks pretty well for a little boy, I think.  I can understand pretty much everything he says and his favorite phrase is "Mama, I'm not talking to you, I'm talking to ____"  Like if he is talking to Tyson about something and Tyson won't respond, I will say "Oh Caleb, that is cool."  He will say, "No Mama, I'm not talking to you, I'm talking to Daddy."  And look at me with this "how dare you" look on his face.  He still sometimes takes naps, but not often.  He hates sleeping in his bed and usually ends up on our floor or the foot of our bed.  I start to get upset, but he is so cuddly and loving, it is nigh unto impossible to be mad for long.  I am just so lucky to have this little guy in my life.  He loves to kiss me and giggle and I just treasure him.



I am just so thankful I have these three little guys.  I just had to write about them.

Thursday, July 26, 2012

Oh Caleb

Lately

Anniversary roses, they were still thriving almost 2 weeks later, SO pretty!

 Sleeping boys
 Our first cherry tomato!!  So yummy!
 Matthew hates to eat in his high chair, so this is where he often eats, in the kitchen. So precious.

 I have been trying to be more creative with snacks, and the boys love it, eat the whole thing, and plus, it is healthy (pretty much)
 Tys and Dallin took down the carport, and I totally missed filming it!  So sad, but here is where the boys love to play now, the roof of the carport.  Oh dear, but I don't blame them, it is pretty fun.
 Cassie turned 21!
 Carmel's tower.  You wouldn't believe how intense the building of this was.  :)  She is awesome.
 Mouse snack + the pirate face = priceless  :)

And he's off...

Sunday, July 22, 2012

Looking on the Positive Side

I have been doing a little researching for other blogs that promote uplifting marriages and I came across an article here about mormon blogs.  I thought it was really interesting and although I don't think I post all the time about how perfect my life is, I try to only write good things because I want to think about the good things in life, not the bad.  If I focus too much on the bad stuff, I turn into a horrible sad person that is cranky all the time.  I have a tendency towards depression and having a bad temper, so I have to be really careful how I think.  So this post was really neat that someone that isn't a mormon enjoys reading mormon blogs because for the most part they are uplifting.
I'm not saying it is bad to write about bad things that happen or about crappy days.  I just like it when there is a positive twist to it, where you feel good after you read it, not bummed out.  It is really great for me to write when I am frustrated, because it helps work out my anger instead of taking it out on my kids or any person that enters my house.  But still, I try not to tell anyone else about it because 1- I don't want anyone to know all the mean things I think, they wouldn't like me anymore and 2- I don't want to say mean things especially ever about my family or people I love because I don't want them to think bad about or judge them.  3- And isn't it just nicer to read a happy story?

So thanks to whoever wrote that post.  Life only happens once, why not have every day be a good one?